May Position of the Month: The Stairway to Heaven
By: Katie Mitchell, M.A., LPC, CST
Senior Lead Clinical and Sex Therapist
I’m excited to bring y’all May’s highlighted #PositionOfTheMonth: The Stairway to Heaven. Let's uncover the allure of the Stairway to Heaven position - a tantalizing posture that can elevate your intimate experiences to new heights.
Positioning: To get into position, the receiving partner lies on their back at the edge of a soft, supportive surface (like a bed or a raised surface), while the other partner stands facing toward them. The penetrating/standing partner then lifts and supports the legs of the receiving partner, creating a staircase-like formation. The penetrating partner can hold onto their partner’s legs, rest them on their shoulders/chest, or make other altercations to enhance pleasure. Once positioning has been adjusted for comfort/pleasure, penetration can occur. This unique configuration allows for deep penetration and intimate eye contact, making it a favorite among adventurous couples.
Let's delve into the benefits and dynamics of the Stairway to Heaven position:
1. Intimacy and Connection: With the close physical proximity, combined with eye contact and synchronized movements, the Stairway to Heaven cultivates a deep emotional bond that transcends the physical position. This position also offers an opportunity for partners to communicate their desires and vulnerabilities openly, deepening their emotional connection.
2. Heightened Sensations: This position offers access to erogenous zones and G-spot stimulation. The angle of penetration allows for deep stimulation, potentially leading to intense orgasms for both partners. Additionally, the sensation of being lifted and supported adds an element of thrill and excitement to the experience.
3. Mutual Pleasure: The Stairway to Heaven position emphasizes mutual pleasure and exploration. Both partners have the opportunity to actively engage in the experience, communicating their needs and desires openly. As with any intimate position, it's important to prioritize comfort, consent, and mutual pleasure. If either partner experiences discomfort or pain in any position, it's crucial to listen to their body and make adjustments accordingly. Communication, experimentation, and open-mindedness are key to unlocking the full potential of the Stairway to Heaven position.
4. Trust and Communication: Engaging in the Stairway to Heaven position requires trust, communication, and mutual respect between partners. It's essential to communicate preferences, comfort levels, and any adjustments needed to ensure a pleasurable experience for both parties. Trusting each other's intentions and desires fosters a deeper emotional connection outside the bedroom as well.
The Stairway to Heaven position offers a thrilling opportunity for couples to explore intimacy, pleasure, and connection in the bedroom. By embracing this position, couples can cultivate a fulfilling and dynamic sex life that strengthens their emotional bond and deepens their connection. Here’s to trying out the Stairway to Heaven this May!