Why Our Integrated Approach Is Ideal for High-Conflict Couples: Gottman Therapy with EFT & CBT Principles

High-conflict couples often feel stuck in cycles of criticism, defensiveness, shutdowns, or explosive fights. The love may still be there, but communication patterns are so reactive that connection feels impossible. At Heights Family Counseling, we specialize in helping couples break out of those patterns — not just by “talking it out,” but by using a powerful blend of evidence-based therapies tailored to the emotional complexity of high-conflict relationships.

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A Therapist’s Guide to Navigating Your Cycle & Hormones as a Teen

As a therapist, I often hear teens talk about how unpredictable and frustrating their cycles can be. One moment, everything feels fine—then suddenly, emotions are all over the place, energy drops, and cramps make even simple tasks feel exhausting. If this sounds familiar, know that what you're experiencing is completely normal. Understanding your cycle and hormones can help you feel more in control and less overwhelmed.

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Why Dating Your Spouse Matters

Dating your spouse helps rekindle the spark that brought you together in the first place. When life gets hectic, it’s easy to become co-managers of a household rather than romantic partners. Date nights remind you that your partner is more than just a roommate or co-parent—they are your lover, best friend, and life companion. These intentional moments together help to create new memories, reignite passion, and reinforce the foundation of your relationship.

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The Importance of Culture in Mental Health Tips on finding a therapist who understands your experiences.

For many, seeking help comes with uncertainty, vulnerability, and at times deep seated cultural expectations that discourage reaching out, especially to those outside of family. As a Latinx therapist, I understand how overwhelming it can feel to navigate the mental health system, particularly when you don’t know where to start. Perhaps you have encountered people in your life who didn’t understand your background, dismissed your experiences, or failed to validate the complexities of your identity.

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March Position of the Month: The Rocking Horse

 

Intimacy is a crucial part of any romantic relationship, and exploring new ways to connect physically can deepen emotional bonds, increase excitement, and enhance overall satisfaction. One position that combines sensual movement with deep connection is The Rocking Horse. This position is all about rhythm, closeness, and a smooth, rocking motion that can create an intimate and pleasurable experience for both partners.

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Why Our Autism Assessment is the Gold Standard

At Heights Family Counseling, we believe that a comprehensive, high-quality autism assessment is essential for accurate diagnosis, personalized support, and long-term success. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is complex and can present differently in each individual. That’s why our gold-standard autism assessment goes far beyond a checklist—it is thorough, multidisciplinary, and tailored to the individual.

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