September Position of the Month: The Amazon
By: Katie Mitchell, M.A., LPC, CST
Senior Lead Clinical and Sex Therapist
In the realm of intimate relationships, trying new experiences can be a powerful way to deepen emotional bonds, enhance trust, and keep the passion alive. One unique position that can offer a fresh perspective on intimacy is The Amazon. This empowering and dynamic position not only shifts traditional roles but also encourages couples to explore their connection in new and exciting ways. Here’s to bringing some newness to your intimate connection this September with The Amazon.
Setup: The Amazon is a role-reversal position that flips the traditional dynamic seen in many sexual positions. Here, the penetrating partner lies on their back with their legs bent, while the receiving partner straddles them, facing forward (where the partners can see each other’s faces). The receiving partner is in a dominant, upright position, controlling the pace and depth of penetration. This position allows the receiving partner to take charge, making it an empowering experience for both individuals.
Benefits: The Amazon is a fantastic way to explore role reversal, with the receiving partner taking on a more dominant role. This shift in dynamics can be empowering, allowing both partners to experience intimacy from a new perspective. Also, because this position requires the receiving partner to take control, it encourages verbal and non-verbal communication. Discussing preferences, boundaries, and comfort levels before and during the experience can lead to greater trust and a deeper connection. The Amazon also allows both partners to explore their bodies and desires in a mutually satisfying way. This position's angle and motion enable the receiving partner to find what feels best for them, while the penetrating partner enjoys the intimate closeness and connection. In addition, with the receiving partner sitting upright, this position allows for direct eye contact, physical closeness, and the opportunity to touch and caress each other freely. This fosters a deeper emotional connection alongside the physical pleasure. Additionally, introducing a position like The Amazon can help break the monotony of routine, injecting new energy and excitement into your intimate life. This novelty can reignite passion and curiosity in the relationship.
Recommendations for success: I will begin by making my standard recommendations (as always): engage in foreplay to help assist in both partners being aroused and ready and if natural lubrication is a struggle, be sure to keep additional lubrication readily available. Start with Comfort in Mind: For those new to this position, comfort is key! Ensure that both partners are relaxed and at ease; consider starting with a slower pace and adjust positions to find what feels best. Use Props if Needed: Depending on comfort and flexibility, pillows or wedges can be used to support the penetrating partner's back or the receiving partner's knees, making the position more comfortable and enjoyable. Focus on Connection: Eye contact, gentle touches, and verbal affirmations can enhance the emotional connection during this position. Remember, the goal is to enjoy each other's company and create a shared experience that strengthens your bond. Experiment with Variations: The Amazon offers versatility. You can experiment with different angles, speeds, and rhythms to find what feels most pleasurable for both partners. Do not be afraid to adjust and explore!
The Amazon position is a unique and empowering way to explore intimacy within a relationship. By encouraging role reversal, enhancing communication, and fostering both physical and emotional closeness, this position offers couples an opportunity to deepen their connection in new and exciting ways. Whether you are looking to break out of routine or simply want to explore new dynamics in your relationship, The Amazon can provide a fresh and fulfilling experience. So, why not take the plunge and see how this powerful position can bring you and your partner closer together?