October Position of the Month: The Corkscrew
By: Katie Mitchell, M.A., LPC, CST
Senior Lead Clinical and Sex Therapist
When it comes to maintaining a passionate and connected relationship, exploring new ways to express intimacy can be both exciting and rewarding. One position that offers a unique twist-literally-is "The Corkscrew." This position not only provides a new angle of intimacy but also allows couples to experience a deeper connection, both physically and emotionally.
Setup: The Corkscrew is a side-lying position that combines elements of traditional and creative positioning to offer a new experience. In this position, the partner-being-penetrated lies on their side at the edge of the bed, hips slightly raised, while the other partner stands or kneels at the edge, penetrating from behind. The partner-being-penetrated can then twist their upper body slightly, allowing for deeper penetration and an enhanced connection between both partners.
Benefits: Unique Angles and Sensations: The Corkscrew offers a different angle of penetration, which can lead to new and heightened sensations. The side-lying aspect allows for deeper penetration, while the twist in the upper body can stimulate different erogenous zones, enhancing the overall experience. Increased Intimacy: This position naturally brings the partners closer together. The penetrating-partner can lean in to create more body contact, while the partner-being-penetrated can reach back to touch and caress, fostering a sense of closeness and connection. Variety and Excitement: Trying new positions like The Corkscrew can break the routine and add a spark of excitement to your intimate life. This novelty can reignite passion and keep the relationship fresh and engaging. Great for All Comfort Levels: The Corkscrew is a versatile position that can be adapted for different levels of flexibility and comfort. The side-lying nature of the position can be more relaxed and less physically demanding, making it accessible to a wide range of couples. Communication and Trust: Successfully navigating The Corkscrew requires communication and a sense of trust between partners. This position encourages both verbal and non-verbal communication, helping couples stay connected and in tune with each other's needs and desires.
Recommendations for success: I will begin by making my standard recommendations (as always): engage in foreplay to help aid in both partners being aroused and ready. If natural lubrication is a struggle, be sure to keep added lubrication readily available. Start slowly, safely, and comfortably. Placing a pillow under the hips of the partner-being-penetrated can provide support and enhance the angle of penetration. Adjustments can be made to suit both partners' preferences. The unique angle of The Corkscrew can create intense sensations; starting slow allows both partners to find a rhythm that is comfortable and enjoyable. As you become more comfortable with the position, you can gradually increase the pace and depth of thrusting. Focus on maintaining physical and emotional connection throughout the experience. The penetrating partner can lean in to whisper, kiss, or caress, while the partner-being-penetrated can twist to make eye contact or reach back for touch, enhancing the emotional bond. The Corkscrew also offers room for creativity. Couples can experiment with different angles, movements, and levels of twist to find what feels best. Do not hesitate to adjust and explore until you discover what works for both of you. As with any new position, communication is essential. Check in with your partner regularly to ensure they are comfortable and enjoying the experience. Open communication fosters trust and ensures that both partners feel safe and satisfied.
The Corkscrew position is an exciting and intimate way to explore new dimensions of connection in your relationship. By offering unique angles, increased closeness, and opportunities for communication, this position can enhance both the physical and emotional aspects of your intimate life. Whether you are looking to break out of your routine or simply want to experience a new level of connection with your partner, The Corkscrew is a fantastic addition to your repertoire. So, twist into intimacy and see how this position can bring you and your partner closer together this October.