October Position of the Month: The Reverse Scoop
Written by Katie Mitchell, M.A., CST, LPC-S
Clinical Director
Physical intimacy is one meaningful way couples connect, not only for pleasure but also for closeness, vulnerability, and playfulness. Trying a new position can help reignite passion, foster curiosity, and deepen emotional bonds. One creative option that blends comfort with connection is The Reverse Scoop. This back-to-front position offers partners an opportunity to experiment with closeness and rhythm while still maintaining a sense of ease.
Set-Up: In The Reverse Scoop position, both partners lie on their sides, facing the same direction, much like classic spooning. However, instead of the penetrating partner behind, the roles are reversed; the penetrating partner lies slightly in front, facing away, while the receiving partner aligns behind them to create penetration from the back. This “flipped spoon” setup encourages closeness through body contact while offering a fresh, novel angle. The position naturally promotes slow, rhythmic motion and encourages communication, since body alignment is less conventional.
Benefits:
· Fresh Take: The Reverse Scoop gives a twist to the familiar spooning position, offering novelty while still maintaining comfort and ease of movement.
· Full-Body Contact: With torsos, arms, and legs closely aligned, this position fosters skin-to-skin connection, which can heighten feelings of intimacy.
· Encourages Slower, More Rhythmic Sex: Because of the side-lying nature, this position lends itself to rocking and gliding rather than thrusting, making it ideal for mindful, sensual intimacy.
· Accessible for Different Body Types and Energy Levels: This position is less strenuous than more upright or acrobatic ones, making it accessible and comfortable for many couples.
· Opportunities for Playfulness: The novelty of the role reversal can promote laughter, curiosity, and lightheartedness.
Tips for Success:
Get Comfortable with Pillows: Placing a pillow under the hips or between knees can help with alignment and make the position more comfortable.
Start Slowly: Because the positioning may feel unfamiliar, begin with gentle movements and adjust until you find a rhythm that works.
Use Hands and Touch: The receiving partner can wrap arms around the penetrating partner, stroke their chest, or caress their body for added intimacy.
Keep Lube Accessible: Lubricant is especially helpful when experimenting with new angles.
Check In: Since this position may feel less intuitive, open communication helps ensure both partners feel comfortable, safe, and connected.
Practice Aftercare: Take a moment after to cuddle or talk; closing the loop on intimacy fosters trust and keeps the emotional connection strong.
The Reverse Scoop is about more than technique; it’s about playfulness, curiosity, and connection! For couples who may feel stuck in routine, or those who want to prioritize closeness and communication, this position can serve as a gentle reminder that intimacy doesn’t have to be complicated to be meaningful. Looking to bring a playful spark into your intimacy this October? Try The Reverse Scoop and see how flipping perspectives can help you and your partner rediscover closeness in new and exciting ways.