December Position of the Month: The Erotic Arch Position

 Written by Katie Mitchell, M.A., NCC, CST, LPC

Lead Therapist and Sex Therapist at Heights Family Counseling

Welcome to another edition of our Highlighted Sex Position of the Month, where we delve into the art of connection and pleasure.  For December, we will be exploring the Erotic Arch Position – a captivating posture that not only ignites passion but also encourages communication and vulnerability between partners.

Setting the Stage

1. Begin with Foreplay: The Erotic Arch Position is an ideal choice for couples who enjoy extended foreplay.  Take your time exploring each other's bodies, building anticipation and desire before transitioning to this enticing pose.

2. Establish Trust: This position involves vulnerability and trust. Start by ensuring a safe and comfortable environment where both partners feel secure in expressing their desires.

Entering the Erotic Arch

1. Lie Back and Relax: The receiving partner lies on their back, while the penetrating partner stands or kneels at the edge of the bed.  This creates a dynamic angle that allows for deep penetration and heightened sensations.

2. Arching Elegance: The receiving partner lifts their hips and arches their back, creating an elegant curve. This intensifies the experience and provides a visually captivating scene for both partners.

Enhancing Connection

1. Eye Contact: Maintain eye contact throughout to deepen the emotional connection.  This fosters a sense of intimacy, allowing partners to share the pleasure and vulnerability of the moment.

2. Synchronize Movements: Coordination is key in the Erotic Arch Position.  Both partners should synchronize their movements, finding a rhythm that resonates with both of them.  This shared dance enhances the overall experience.

Communication and Exploration

1. Verbalize Desires: The Erotic Arch Position encourages open communication about desires and preferences.  Use this intimate space to express what feels good and explore new avenues of pleasure together.

2. Experiment with Angles: Adjust the arch and experiment with different angles to find what works best for both partners.  This flexibility allows for a customized experience that caters to individual preferences.

The Erotic Arch Position is an invitation to explore the depths of passion and connection.  As a certified sex therapist, I encourage couples to approach this position with curiosity, communication, and a commitment to shared pleasure.

*As usual, it is recommended that if you or your partner are not feeling well, you might consider delaying sexual engagement until both of you are feeling up to par!  And, as a continued healthy sex practice, please wash your hands before and after a sexual experience.  If it helps you both to feel more comfortable, and in the mood, start your shared sexual experience by taking a shower together.  In addition to keeping healthy sex practices in mind, I also recommend beginning any sexual experience by doing some light stretching together to help avoid injuries and/or muscle cramps that might arise during a sexual experience, as this is still the most common sexual injury.*

Remember, the Erotic Arch Position is just one chapter in the vast book of sexual exploration.  Each page turned brings new discoveries and connections. Embrace the journey, communicate openly, and celebrate the unique dance of intimacy with your partner.

Stay tuned for more revelations and passionate insights as we continue our exploration of the diverse world of sexual positions!

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